Dr. Matthew Pate
1 min readSep 4, 2023

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In 2006, I quit a perfectly good job so I could go get my doctorate. I needed something on which to focus that didn't smell like a library book. I saw a flier for a kendo/iaido school in the next town over. I started going and had a very similar experience. I was magnificently terrible at both. I kept at it anyway. It took four years of twice weekly practices to get somewhere. In my case that meant practicing with just the instructors in year four. When I went for my final lesson, the sensei said, "Matthew, when you started I thought you were perhaps the worst student I had ever seen. Now you are pretty good." It was the willingness to be very bad at something that made getting better possible. I thought about quitting a hundred times. I don't know why I didn't, but I'm glad I stuck with it. Your article reminded me of these experiences. I really appreciate how beautifully you communicated your story. Thank you.

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Dr. Matthew Pate
Dr. Matthew Pate

Written by Dr. Matthew Pate

Criminal Justice Researcher. Erstwhile Detective, Author. Mixed Media Artist. Habitual Line Stepper. Loves Dogs and Cats. Holds Doors. Wishes for Better.

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